There may be separation but........

There may be separation but...






Human to human relationship is nothing new in life. Just as the relationship becomes stronger after many days of love, it is not a fault to break up the relationship due to various reasons. Even if the relationship is tied with the belief of staying together under one roof for the rest of the life, sometimes it has to be separated. But being different does not mean being an opponent or an enemy.


This is often seen in our country. Divorce after a love relationship or marriage creates disharmony between the two. Defamation, objectionable pictures, video-audio are published in public or on social media. As a result of which the relations are immediately enmity; But why?


Even after a breakup of a relationship, it becomes a matter of duty to be civil between the two. If there is such courtesy, the sense of courtesy is propagated in life, society and state. The level of revenge is reduced to a large extent. There may be a breakup in the relationship-


Remove the sadness behind: When you see that two cannot be together. Separation is appropriate at this time. Understand each other. Stand apart on your own through advice. Pechner wiped away his sadness and left. Maybe not living together but what's the harm if the relationship is good?


Don't resort to lies: Many people resort to lies during break ups. A time until the case; But why? You have spent a lot of time in the past with the person you want to break up with. Ruled by love. Why resort to brutal lies on a once beloved person?Where is the difficulty if it is different directly? "From today we want to separate. You are like you I want to be completely different like me' - what is the harm in saying? It is better not to move with whom it is not possible to be with. Voluntary departure is a sign of honesty.


Don't avoid when you meet: You have loved someone even for a day. Maybe due to their own mistakes or due to lack of concessions, they are separated now. So, if you meet, don't pretend you don't know or don't see. Can exchange skills. How are you without me? Are you with a girl or a boy now?' Apart from these things, if you behave politely like other people in the society, time will not be wasted. The level of revenge among themselves may also decrease. Courtesy may increase.


Forget everything that happened before: been together for a long time. Many things happen when two are together. Love, romance, quarrels can be anything. Do not discuss these matters with others. The person you tell these things to may not like you and the person you are telling them about, and telling them to two or four others may ruin your personality. So he keeps everything behind in himself.


At the moment of separation, think for the last time: today you may be leaving each other. After some time you and your long time partner are separated. At this moment think for the last time - what can not be together? Any mistake is going to break up the long-standing relationship? Separation may occur; But due to any mistake? Let the two of you discuss it for the last time today. One can make concessions. Or you can delete the mistake today.


Remember that divorce is not a crime if it is consensual. Also don't forget that separation is only a matter of time; But it takes a long time to build a relationship. Months, years and even decades. So where is the difficulty in correcting yourself before the breakup?



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